{"id":1238,"date":"2023-02-14T11:11:14","date_gmt":"2023-02-14T18:11:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/daminhptvn.org\/?p=1238"},"modified":"2023-02-14T11:11:14","modified_gmt":"2023-02-14T18:11:14","slug":"chua-nhat-tuan-vi-thuong-nien","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daminhptvn.org\/?p=1238","title":{"rendered":"CH\u00daA NH\u1eacT TU\u1ea6N VI TH\u01af\u1edcNG NI\u00caN"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Sixth Sunday in Ordinary Time<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"The<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

S<\/strong>\u1ed0<\/strong>NG L<\/strong>\u1edc<\/strong>I CH\u00daA<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

GOSPEL : Mt <\/strong>5:17-37<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/a><\/a>Jesus said to his disciples:
“Do not think that I have come to abolish the law or the prophets.
I have come not to abolish but to fulfill.
Amen, I say to you, until heaven and earth pass away,
not the smallest letter or the smallest part of a letter
will pass from the law,
until all things have taken place.
Therefore, whoever breaks one of the least of these commandments
and teaches others to do so
will be called least in the kingdom of heaven.
But whoever obeys and teaches these commandments
will be called greatest in the kingdom of heaven.
I tell you, unless your righteousness surpasses
that of the scribes and Pharisees,
you will not enter the kingdom of heaven.

“You have heard that it was said to your ancestors,
You shall not kill; and whoever kills will be liable to judgment.<\/em>
But I say to you,
whoever is angry with his brother
will be liable to judgment;
and whoever says to his brother, ‘Raqa,’
will be answerable to the Sanhedrin;
and whoever says, ‘You fool,’
will be liable to fiery Gehenna.
Therefore, if you bring your gift to the altar,
and there recall that your brother
has anything against you,
leave your gift there at the altar,
go first and be reconciled with your brother,
and then come and offer your gift.
Settle with your opponent quickly while on the way to court.
Otherwise your opponent will hand you over to the judge,
and the judge will hand you over to the guard,
and you will be thrown into prison.
Amen, I say to you,
you will not be released until you have paid the last penny.

“You have heard that it was said,
You shall not commit adultery.<\/em>
But I say to you,
everyone who looks at a woman with lust
has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
If your right eye causes you to sin,
tear it out and throw it away.
It is better for you to lose one of your members
than to have your whole body thrown into Gehenna.
And if your right hand causes you to sin,
cut it off and throw it away.
It is better for you to lose one of your members
than to have your whole body go into Gehenna.

“It was also said,
Whoever divorces his wife must give her a bill of divorce.<\/em>
But I say to you,
whoever divorces his wife –  unless the marriage is unlawful –
causes her to commit adultery,
and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.

“Again you have heard that it was said to your ancestors,
Do not take a false oath,<\/em>
<\/em>but make good to the Lord all that you vow.<\/em>
But I say to you, do not swear at all;
not by heaven, for it is God’s throne;
nor by the earth, for it is his footstool;
nor by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King.
Do not swear by your head,
for you cannot make a single hair white or black.
Let your ‘Yes’ mean ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No’ mean ‘No.’
Anything more is from the evil one.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TIN M\u1eeaNG : Mt <\/strong>5,17-37<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Anh em \u0111\u00e3 nghe lu\u1eadt d\u1ea1y ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a. C\u00f2n Th\u1ea7y, Th\u1ea7y b\u1ea3o cho anh em bi\u1ebft.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2720<\/strong>Tin M\u1eebng Ch\u00faa Gi\u00ea-su Ki-t\u00f4 theo th\u00e1nh M\u00e1t-th\u00eau.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

17<\/sup> Khi \u1ea5y, \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00ea-su n\u00f3i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c m\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec7 r\u1eb1ng : \u201cAnh em \u0111\u1eebng t\u01b0\u1edfng Th\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e3i b\u1ecf Lu\u1eadt M\u00f4-s\u00ea ho\u1eb7c l\u1eddi c\u00e1c ng\u00f4n s\u1ee9. Th\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e3i b\u1ecf, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ec7n to\u00e0n. 18<\/sup> V\u00ec, Th\u1ea7y b\u1ea3o th\u1eadt anh em, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi tr\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea5t qua \u0111i, th\u00ec m\u1ed9t ch\u1ea5m m\u1ed9t ph\u1ebft trong L\u1ec1 Lu\u1eadt c\u0169ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng qua \u0111i, cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh. 19<\/sup> V\u1eady ai b\u00e3i b\u1ecf d\u00f9 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u0103n nh\u1ecf nh\u1ea5t \u1ea5y, v\u00e0 d\u1ea1y ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, th\u00ec s\u1ebd b\u1ecb g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 k\u1ebb nh\u1ecf nh\u1ea5t trong N\u01b0\u1edbc Tr\u1eddi. C\u00f2n ai tu\u00e2n h\u00e0nh v\u00e0 d\u1ea1y l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, th\u00ec s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 l\u1edbn trong N\u01b0\u1edbc Tr\u1eddi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

20<\/sup> \u201cV\u1eady, Th\u1ea7y b\u1ea3o cho anh em bi\u1ebft, n\u1ebfu anh em kh\u00f4ng \u0103n \u1edf c\u00f4ng ch\u00ednh h\u01a1n c\u00e1c kinh s\u01b0 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi Pha-ri-s\u00eau, th\u00ec s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0o N\u01b0\u1edbc Tr\u1eddi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

21<\/sup> \u201cAnh em \u0111\u00e3 nghe Lu\u1eadt d\u1ea1y ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a r\u1eb1ng : Ch\u1edb gi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi ; ai gi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi, th\u00ec \u0111\u00e1ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u01b0a ra to\u00e0. 22<\/sup> C\u00f2n Th\u1ea7y, Th\u1ea7y b\u1ea3o cho anh em bi\u1ebft : B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai gi\u1eadn anh em m\u00ecnh, th\u00ec \u0111\u00e1ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u01b0a ra to\u00e0. Ai m\u1eafng anh em m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3 ng\u1ed1c, th\u00ec \u0111\u00e1ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u01b0a ra tr\u01b0\u1edbc Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng H\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ed3ng. C\u00f2n ai ch\u1eedi anh em m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 qu\u00e2n ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ea1o, th\u00ec \u0111\u00e1ng b\u1ecb l\u1eeda ho\u1ea3 ng\u1ee5c thi\u00eau \u0111\u1ed1t. 23<\/sup> V\u1eady, n\u1ebfu khi anh s\u1eafp d\u00e2ng l\u1ec5 v\u1eadt tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u00e0n th\u1edd, m\u00e0 s\u1ef1c nh\u1edb c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi anh em \u0111ang c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n b\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh v\u1edbi anh, 24<\/sup> th\u00ec h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a l\u1ec5 l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u00e0n th\u1edd, \u0111i l\u00e0m ho\u00e0 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi anh em \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3, r\u1ed3i tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i d\u00e2ng l\u1ec5 v\u1eadt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. 25<\/sup> Anh h\u00e3y mau mau d\u00e0n x\u1ebfp v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, khi c\u00f2n \u0111ang tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y t\u1edbi c\u1eeda c\u00f4ng, k\u1ebbo ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y n\u1ed9p anh cho quan to\u00e0, quan to\u00e0 l\u1ea1i giao anh cho thu\u1ed9c h\u1ea1, v\u00e0 anh s\u1ebd b\u1ecb t\u1ed1ng ng\u1ee5c. 26<\/sup> Th\u1ea7y b\u1ea3o th\u1eadt cho anh bi\u1ebft : anh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ra kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u00f3, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi tr\u1ea3 h\u1ebft \u0111\u1ed3ng xu cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

27<\/sup> \u201cAnh em \u0111\u00e3 nghe Lu\u1eadt d\u1ea1y r\u1eb1ng : Ch\u1edb ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh. 28<\/sup> C\u00f2n Th\u1ea7y, Th\u1ea7y b\u1ea3o cho anh em bi\u1ebft : B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai nh\u00ecn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef m\u00e0 th\u00e8m mu\u1ed1n, th\u00ec trong l\u00f2ng \u0111\u00e3 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y r\u1ed3i. 29<\/sup> N\u1ebfu m\u1eaft ph\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a anh l\u00e0m c\u1edb cho anh sa ng\u00e3, th\u00ec h\u00e3y m\u00f3c m\u00e0 n\u00e9m \u0111i ; v\u00ec th\u00e0 m\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n th\u00e2n th\u1ec3, c\u00f2n h\u01a1n l\u00e0 to\u00e0n th\u00e2n b\u1ecb n\u00e9m v\u00e0o ho\u1ea3 ng\u1ee5c. 30<\/sup> N\u1ebfu tay ph\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a anh l\u00e0m c\u1edb cho anh sa ng\u00e3, th\u00ec h\u00e3y ch\u1eb7t m\u00e0 n\u00e9m \u0111i ; v\u00ec th\u00e0 m\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n th\u00e2n th\u1ec3, c\u00f2n h\u01a1n l\u00e0 to\u00e0n th\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i sa ho\u1ea3 ng\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

31<\/sup> \u201cLu\u1eadt c\u00f2n d\u1ea1y r\u1eb1ng : Ai r\u1eaby v\u1ee3, th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i cho v\u1ee3 ch\u1ee9ng th\u01b0 ly d\u1ecb. 32<\/sup> C\u00f2n Th\u1ea7y, Th\u1ea7y b\u1ea3o cho anh em bi\u1ebft : ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n b\u1ea5t h\u1ee3p ph\u00e1p, b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai r\u1eaby v\u1ee3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea9y v\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ed7 ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh ; v\u00e0 ai c\u01b0\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 b\u1ecb r\u1eaby, th\u00ec c\u0169ng ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i ngo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

33<\/sup> \u201cAnh em c\u00f2n nghe Lu\u1eadt d\u1ea1y ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a r\u1eb1ng : Ch\u1edb b\u1ed9i th\u1ec1, nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y tr\u1ecdn l\u1eddi th\u1ec1 v\u1edbi \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00faa. 34<\/sup> C\u00f2n Th\u1ea7y, Th\u1ea7y b\u1ea3o cho anh em bi\u1ebft : \u0111\u1eebng th\u1ec1 chi c\u1ea3. \u0110\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 tr\u1eddi m\u00e0 th\u1ec1, v\u00ec tr\u1eddi l\u00e0 ngai Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa. 35<\/sup> \u0110\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ea5t m\u00e0 th\u1ec1, v\u00ec \u0111\u1ea5t l\u00e0 b\u1ec7 d\u01b0\u1edbi ch\u00e2n Ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 Gi\u00ea-ru-sa-lem m\u00e0 th\u1ec1, v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Vua cao c\u1ea3. 36<\/sup> \u0110\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 l\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u m\u00e0 th\u1ec1, v\u00ec anh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho m\u1ed9t s\u1ee3i t\u00f3c ho\u00e1 tr\u1eafng hay \u0111en \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. 37<\/sup> Nh\u01b0ng h\u1ec5 \u2018c\u00f3\u2019 th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i \u2018c\u00f3\u2019, \u2018kh\u00f4ng\u2019 th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i \u2018kh\u00f4ng\u2019 ; th\u00eam th\u1eaft \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0 do \u00e1c qu\u1ef7.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

SUY NI\u1ec6M<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

X\u01afA V\u00c0 NAY<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong Lu\u1eadn Ng\u1eef, Kh\u1ed5ng T\u1eed c\u00f3 vi\u1ebft \u201c\u00d4n c\u1ed1 tri t\u00e2n kh\u1ea3 d\u0129 vi s\u01b0 h\u0129\u201d, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0: \u201c\u00d4n c\u00e1i c\u0169 m\u00e0 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i m\u1edbi th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m th\u1ea7y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ed3i.\u201d Tr\u00ean m\u1eb7t ch\u1eef, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ee5ng \u00fd c\u1ee7a t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean \u00f4n t\u1eadp ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, h\u1ecdc v\u1ea5n \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc, \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ee7 \u0111\u1eafc v\u00e0 tri nh\u1eadn c\u00e1i m\u1edbi, th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m th\u1ea7y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, hay n\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c x\u00e9t th\u1eddi x\u01b0a lu\u1eadn th\u1eddi nay. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u0169ng v\u1eady, Tin M\u1eebng h\u00f4m nay cho ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi Ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y cho ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng, \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu kh\u00f4ng xem th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eefng qui \u0111\u1ecbnh x\u01b0a. Tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e2ng n\u00f3 l\u00ean m\u1ed9t t\u1ea7m cao m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eadn ra gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a L\u1ec1 Lu\u1eadt. Th\u1eadt v\u1eady, L\u1ec1 Lu\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec7 t\u1ea1i \u1edf nh\u1eefng con ch\u1eef, nh\u01b0ng nh\u01b0 Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 tu\u00e2n h\u00e0nh v\u00e0 d\u1ea1y ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. K\u1ebb th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u00ec s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn trong N\u01b0\u1edbc Tr\u1eddi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 c\u00e1c Kinh S\u01b0 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi Pharis\u00eau kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u1ea1y ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0m, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o L\u1ec1 Lu\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c. H\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 ch\u0103m ch\u0103m v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng l\u1ed7i ph\u1ea1m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c r\u1ed3i cho r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng ch\u00ednh, l\u00e0 th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean, \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu m\u1edbi d\u1ea1y c\u00e1c m\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec7 r\u1eb1ng: \u201cN\u1ebfu anh em kh\u00f4ng \u0103n \u1edf c\u00f4ng ch\u00ednh h\u01a1n c\u00e1c kinh s\u01b0 v\u00e0 Pharis\u00eau th\u00ec s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0o N\u01b0\u1edbc Tr\u1eddi.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Ch\u1ea5m n\u1ed1i ch\u1ea5m \u2013 H\u1ecdc Vi\u1ec7n \u0110aminh)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u1edcI NGUY\u1ec6N TRONG NG\u00c0Y<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u1ea1y Ch\u00faa, xin cho ch\u00fang con bi\u1ebft th\u1ef1c thi \u0111\u00fang nh\u1eefng g\u00ec Ch\u00faa d\u1ea1y, d\u1ea1y \u0111\u00fang nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang con \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c thi. Amen.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

TU \u0110\u1ee8C S\u1ed0NG \u0110\u1ea0O<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

NG\u00d4N NG\u1eee T\u00ccNH Y\u00caU C\u1ee6A B\u1ea0N L\u00c0 G\u00cc?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

WH\u0110 (07.02.2023)<\/strong><\/a> – L\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c? L\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd d\u00e0nh cho ch\u00fang ta? Ch\u00fang ta d\u00e0nh t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, nh\u01b0ng nhi\u1ec1u khi h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. T\u1ea1i sao v\u1eady? L\u00fd do l\u00e0 v\u00ec c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta mong mu\u1ed1n m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ra v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ngay c\u1ea3 khi h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra c\u00e1ch th\u1ebf y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y l\u1ea5y c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a Amy l\u00e0m v\u00ed d\u1ee5.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Amy l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef h\u1ebft m\u1ef1c y\u00eau ch\u1ed3ng. C\u00f4 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1eed t\u1ebf nho nh\u1ecf v\u1edbi anh \u1ea5y\u2014gi\u1eb7t, \u1ee7i r\u1ed3i treo qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn v\u00e0o t\u1ee7 cho anh. C\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n anh \u01b0a th\u00edch \u0111\u1ec3 mang \u0111i \u0103n tr\u01b0a. C\u00f4 lu\u00f4n d\u1ecdn s\u1eb5n th\u1ee9c \u0103n n\u00f3ng h\u1ed5i tr\u00ean b\u00e0n cho b\u1eefa t\u1ed1i khi anh \u0111i l\u00e0m v\u1ec1. C\u00f4 nhanh nh\u1eb9n ph\u1ee5 gi\u00fap anh m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0o cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, Amy c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fa \u00fd. Ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f4, d\u00f9 y\u00eau c\u00f4 nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i l\u1eddi c\u1ea3m \u01a1n v\u00ec nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u Amy \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cho anh, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, kh\u00f4ng \u00edt l\u1ea7n anh c\u00f2n ho\u00e0i nghi: \u201cEm c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 y\u00eau anh kh\u00f4ng<\/em>?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Amy c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t n\u00e0y cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ecdc cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch N\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau: B\u00ed m\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau b\u1ec1n l\u00e2u<\/em> (The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts<\/em>) c\u1ee7a t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 Gary Chapman.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N<\/strong>g\u00f4n ng\u1eef <\/strong>T<\/strong>\u00ecnh y\u00eau<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 N\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, Gary Chapman vi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c theo c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ra sao. Amy \u0111ang th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng theo l\u1ed1i m\u00e0 c\u00f4 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f4.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Amy \u0111ang bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng theo c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y mong mu\u1ed1n anh \u1ea5y c\u0169ng s\u1ebd th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady v\u1edbi c\u00f4\u2014\u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5. Chapman li\u1ec7t k\u00ea 5 c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c nhau m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c: Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn,<\/em> kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian \u00fd ngh\u0129a; t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0; h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng quan t\u00e2m, v\u00e0 giao ti\u1ebfp c\u01a1 th\u1ec3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. <\/strong>Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng qua nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, khen ng\u1ee3i ho\u1eb7c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0y s\u1ebd th\u00edch nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean tinh th\u1ea7n, nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m. Do \u0111\u00f3, khi d\u00f9ng l\u1eddi x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn, ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1nn\u00f3i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m k\u00edch h\u1ecd v\u00e0 h\u1ecd quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi khen ng\u1ee3i, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i, ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u1eed t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb thay v\u00ec \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi khi ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 cho m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau qua nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, vi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi nh\u1eafn y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng l\u00e1 th\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch x\u00e1c minh t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. K<\/strong>ho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian \u00fd ngh\u0129a<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u1ee9 hai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f9ng nhau. D\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n, th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd l\u00e0 trung t\u00e2m th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta trong nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u1edf b\u00ean nhau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, l\u1eafng nghe c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c trong cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng; n\u00f3 cho th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang ch\u0103m ch\u00fa l\u1eafng nghe nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia \u0111ang chia s\u1ebb. Khi ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia s\u1ebd th\u00edch l\u00e0m c\u00f9ng, r\u1ed3i s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng theo c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. T\u1eb7ng q<\/strong>u\u00e0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 qu\u00e0 v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t hay ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ngay c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi ghi ch\u00fa \u0111\u01a1n s\u01a1 trong t\u00fai \u0111\u1ed3 \u0103n tr\u01b0a c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn s\u00e2u s\u1eafc. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta t\u1eb7ng m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea5u ch\u1ec9 c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Sau khi \u0111i mua s\u1eafm c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y, \u0111i c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c, ho\u1eb7c \u0111i ngh\u1ec9 th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c mang v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0, d\u00f9 r\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi, g\u00e2y b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb, quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. <\/strong>H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng quan t\u00e2m<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec3 v\u00e1c \u0111\u1ee1 g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u1ee9 t\u01b0, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng quan t\u00e2m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Khi ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c r\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf, c\u0169ng khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u1ec1m vui. \u0110\u00f4i khi l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau c\u1ea7u l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u00fang ta c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c nho nh\u1ecf n\u00e0y v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n bao nhi\u00eau th\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn b\u1ea5y nhi\u00eau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. <\/strong>Nh\u1eefng giao ti\u1ebfp c\u01a1 th\u1ec3<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u1ee9 n\u0103m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n qua nh\u1eefng giao ti\u1ebfp c\u01a1 th\u1ec3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, tinh th\u1ea7n, v\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng. Trong ch\u1eebng m\u1ef1c cho ph\u00e9p, ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef th\u00f4ng qua \u0111\u1ee5ng ch\u1ea1m c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 bao g\u1ed3m nh\u1eefng c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 nh\u01b0 n\u1eafm tay, v\u1ed7 v\u1ec1, ho\u1eb7c \u00f4m \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 an \u1ee7i khi ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang bu\u1ed3n, \u0111ang kh\u00f3c, ho\u1eb7c \u0111ang g\u1eb7p kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t quan tr\u1ecdng. S\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ee5ng ch\u1ea1m tr\u00ecu m\u1ebfn n\u00e0y nhi\u1ec1u khi truy\u1ec1n \u0111i nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn s\u00e2u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 l\u1eddi n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a Amy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau khi \u0111\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 N\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, Amy bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f4 l\u00e0 Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn<\/em>. V\u00ec v\u1eady, trong khi Amy ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u0103m s\u00f3c ch\u1ed3ng, ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu l\u00e0 v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, c\u00f4 c\u0169ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn d\u00e0nh cho anh. C\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m \u01a1n anh v\u00ec t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec anh \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cho c\u00f4. Amy c\u0169ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3i \u201cEm y\u00eau anh<\/em>\u201d tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi anh \u0111i l\u00e0m v\u00e0 \u0111i l\u00e0m v\u1ec1 m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. Ngo\u00e0i ra, c\u00f4 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 tinh th\u1ea7n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, khen ng\u1ee3i th\u00e0nh t\u00edch trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7u su\u1ea5t khi ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a anh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ed1i l\u1ea1i, ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a Amy b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3i l\u1eddi c\u1ea3m \u01a1n v\u00ec t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cho anh. Anh c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n h\u1ecfi li\u1ec7u c\u00f4 c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 y\u00eau anh kh\u00f4ng. Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, anh b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n, h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. V\u00e0 r\u1ed3i, ch\u00ednh anh c\u0169ng h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 cho Amy th\u1ea5y t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t m\u00e0 anh d\u00e0nh cho c\u00f4.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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N\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau: Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn,<\/em> kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian \u00fd ngh\u0129a; t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0; h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng quan t\u00e2m, v\u00e0 giao ti\u1ebfp c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng cho b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan n\u00e0o.Ngo\u00e0i ra,kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft l\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 5 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Do \u0111\u00f3, khi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, h\u00e3y d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc xem h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00ec th\u1ef1c ra, khi th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng d\u00e0nh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 nh\u1ea5t, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f2n b\u1eb1ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 h\u1ecd quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m k\u00edch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, cho d\u00f9 ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ecdn s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0o, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta t\u1ecfa s\u00e1ng, v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u, v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p. D\u00f9 c\u00f3 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y tin r\u1eb1ng, khi c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean an t\u00e2m h\u01a1n, t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3t, s\u1ebd mong mu\u1ed1n y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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N\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau: Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn, kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian \u00fd ngh\u0129a; t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0; h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng quan t\u00e2m, v\u00e0 giao ti\u1ebfp c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng cho b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan n\u00e0o. Ngo\u00e0i ra, kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft l\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 5 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Do \u0111\u00f3, khi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, h\u00e3y d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc xem h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. V\u00ec th\u1ef1c ra, khi th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng d\u00e0nh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 nh\u1ea5t, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f2n b\u1eb1ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 h\u1ecd quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m k\u00edch, v\u1edbi tin t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng, khi c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean an t\u00e2m h\u01a1n, t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3t, s\u1ebd mong mu\u1ed1n y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e0 tr\u00ean t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta d\u00e0nh cho nhau, cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n mang t\u00ednh t\u00e2m l\u00fd, theo ki\u1ec3u n\u00f3i \u201c\u0111\u1eafc nh\u00e2n t\u00e2m\u201d<\/em>, nh\u01b0ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t xu\u1ea5t t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa, \u0110\u1ea5ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh l\u00e0 T\u00ecnh y\u00eau; c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00edn m\u00fac t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh tr\u00e1i tim v\u00e0 c\u1ea1nh s\u01b0\u1eddn c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Gi\u00easu Kit\u00f4, \u0110\u1ea5ng c\u00f3 t\u00ean l\u00e0 L\u00f2ng Th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t; v\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh b\u1edfi \u201cB\u00e0i Ca \u0110\u1ee9c m\u1ebfn\u201d<\/em>: y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00ec nh\u1eabn nh\u1ee5c, th\u00ec tha th\u1ee9 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, tin t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, hy v\u1ecdng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3,\u2026 (1 Cr 13:1-13).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, th\u00ec cho d\u00f9 ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ecdn s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0o, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, th\u00e1nh thi\u00eang, v\u00e0 v\u00f4 v\u1ecb l\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta t\u1ecfa s\u00e1ng, v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u, v\u1edbi l\u00f2ng bao dung, v\u00e0 v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p, nh\u01b0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a th\u00e1nh Augustin\u00f4, \u201cC\u1ee9 y\u00eau \u0111i, r\u1ed3i mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m g\u00ec th\u00ec l\u00e0m!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lisa Klewicki<\/a>[1]<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nt. Anna Ng\u1ecdc Di\u1ec7p, OP- <\/em>D\u00f2ng \u0110a Minh Th\u00e1nh T\u00e2m
Chuy\u1ec3n ng\u1eef t\u1eeb: catholicdigest.com (06. 02. 2023)<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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<\/a>[1]<\/strong><\/a> Lisa Klewicki l\u00e0 b\u00e1c s\u0129 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc l\u00e2m s\u00e0ng, c\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea5p v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc. Hi\u1ec7n b\u00e0 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1i v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u, v\u00e0 l\u00e0 gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 tr\u1ee3 gi\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a Vi\u1ec7n Khoa h\u1ecdc T\u00e2m l\u00fd thu\u1ed9c \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Divine Mercy, Hoa K\u1ef3.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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